Psychotherapy at Bluecoats Sports Club Horsham

Posted on by Alana Burton

Southdowns Psychotherapy is also now at Bluecoats Sports Club in Horsham

I am pleased to announce a second location for Southdowns Psychotherapy.

In addition to a base in Washington, I will offer psychotherapy and counselling services from the therapy room at Bluecoats Sports Club in Horsham. The therapy room is a private room beyond the gym and offers a convenient location close to Horsham town centre. Bluecoats Sports is located within the grounds of Christ’s Hospital school to the south of Horsham town centre. It is within easy distance of the A24 making it accessible to locations up and down the main road including Southwater, Barns Green, Broadbridge Heath, Mannings Heath, Nuthurst, Maplehurst, Billingshurst and surrounding areas.

Bluecoats is under 10 mins walk from Christ’s Hospital train station

I can offer limited times at both locations and welcome you to mention your preferred location when you get in touch.

Bluecoats Sports Health and Fitness Club
Christ’s Hospital
Horsham
RH13 0YB

The 5-4-3-2-1 Simple Tool To Reduce Anxiety and Stress

Posted on by Alana Burton

5…4…3…2…1  –  5 Simple Steps

When anxiety takes over and threatens our peace of mind, we can feel overwhelmed and it can be difficult to stay in the moment.

The following “5-4-3-2-1” tool is a simple yet effective method for regaining control of your mind and aims to ground you again in the moment when anxiety threatens to take over.

This exercise helps bring us back to our senses by inviting us to focus on our senses and encourages us to focus on our breathing. As with any type of trigger, remembering to take deep breaths in and out will control hyperventilation and slow your heart rate.

This technique can be used in a panic attack as it promotes the calming response in our body to combat the emergency panic response in our body.

 

 

Look around and name five things you can see. Wherever you are, take the time to look up and around and focus on naming 5 items you can see around you. No matter how big or how small, state 5 things.

 

Look around and name four things you can touch. Whether it is the back of your own hand, your toes or the chair you may be sitting on. State 4 things you can feel.

 

 

Look around and name three things you can hear. These things need to be external sounds rather than any internal bodily sounds you can hear.

 

 

Look around and name two things you can smell. This may be tricky but you could focus on your breathing and smell the air going in and out of your lungs or you may be able to smell a cushion on the sofa or the palms of your hands.

 

Name one thing you can taste. You don’t have to actively look to put something in your mouth for this one. It may be the taste inside your mouth. Maybe you had a sandwich and coffee for lunch and you can still taste those flavours.

 

 

When intense emotions threaten to overwhelm us, focusing on the above exercise will help to ground you and bring your thinking part of your brain back online. You will regain a sense of control and calm in being able to help yourself combat anxiety triggers.

For more support with anxiety, get in touch with Alana to book an assessment session and to find out more about how psychotherapy can help with anxiety. You can also download a copy of the Southdowns Psychotherapy 54321 Grounding Exercise here.

Myths About Suicide

Posted on by Alana Burton

The 10th September was World Suicide Prevention Day.

World Suicide Day is an annual day to encourage awareness about the single biggest killer of men under the age of 45 today.

Suicide affects men and women of all different races, cultures, ages, religions and so on and the highest risk group are men under 45. To continue with a series of posts focusing on suicide this week, in this post I want to highlight a few common myths about suicide and talk about what the reality is behind each.

The Myths

MYTH: Talking about suicide to someone does not mean they’re more likely to do it

FACT: We may feel that everything could hinge on the words we say. We may feel that someone is more likely to take their life if we’ve spoken words linked to death, dying or suicide. This is all so incorrect and such a sad myth. If someone is wrestling with suicidal thoughts, one of the clearest ways you could help them is to be very direct and ask clearly. Talking openly about suicide may just be what is needed to help support someone to rethink their decision.

What’s the worst they could say? “No way, you’re crazy, how could you think that of me?” But what’s the worst thing that could happen if you don’t say it?

MYTH: Those who talk about suicide are not serious about doing it.

FACT: Quite often, if someone is thinking about suicide, they may have tried to communicate this to someone in some way. They may have even shared their plans with someone.

MYTH: If someone has decided to take their own life, there’s nothing I can do to stop it.

FACT: It may be that someone who has suicidal ideation dips in and out of feeling actively suicidal. It may not be a constant feeling and so getting timely help and support could make all the difference.

MYTH: If someone has been suicidal before, they will always be suicidal.

FACT: Being actively suicidal may actually be quite short-term and specific to a particular situation. Someone could have periodic suicidal thoughts and they may not necessarily be constant. Someone who experiences suicidal thoughts is able to still continue with day to day life.

MYTH: Only people with mental disorders can be suicidal.

FACT: Not all those with a mental health disorder have suicidal thoughts and not all those who suicide have a mental health disorder.

MYTH: Most suicides happen out of the blue and without warning signs.

FACT: The reality is that there probably have been one or more of several warning signs that someone may suicide. Suicide can happen out of the blue but it’s really important to be familiar with the warning signs.

MYTH: Someone who has suicidal thoughts really wants to die.

FACT: Not all those with suicidal behaviour actually want to die. Many of them may want to escape the mental pain they feel and others may be ambivalent about living or dying but death may not actually be a motivation.

If you have been or are affected by suicide in any way, talking to someone can help.